So I find out this afternoon that birth dad was never informed that his last visit was his goodbye visit, so the attorney is requesting a final visit. This frustrates me because both my caseworker and I told the transporter (the person supervising the visit) that it was the goodbye visit. Anyway...it look like birth dad gets another visit with Sam. Since the case was closed on visits, a new transporter will most likely get the case meaning that a stranger will essentially pick Sam up, so he can go visit another stranger. My poor baby!
Then on top of that, birth mom was recently released from jail, and she, too, is requesting a goodbye visit. So not only does Sam have to deal with one visit with a stranger, but he will have two since the parents cannot get along well enough to have visits together. Last time the birth mom refused to hold Sam the whole time...she has only seen him three times since he was born. My heart breaks for my little baby boy!
Hopefully he won't be too stressed out about the two visits...he usually gets pretty clingy afterward. However, he is also starting to be more aware of who is caring for him and displays some separation anxiety.
I just wish the adoption could be final, and this would all be over and done with. Oh well!
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